Oral Pleasure: 10 Tips to “Blow” His Mind
The life of a sexologist is an exciting one! I know –hard to believe, right? And among the many fun and interesting projects I contribute to on a daily basis, hosting workshops on sexual pleasure is one of my favourite parts of the job. I love the energy, anticipation and insightful questions participants bring to the session and I always learn something new from each group.
Many people wonder what types of techniques we cover (and practice!) in a typical Blow His Mind Session, so I thought I’d share a few tips that may just keep him coming back for more.
Before we get started, we need to remember that no two men are the same (thank goodness!) and accordingly, no two penises, balls or prostates are identical in their sexual response. Even those men who know exactly what brings them to the height of ecstasy admit that their needs change over time. Mood, diet, time elapsed since last sexual encounter, stress, energy levels and a host of other factors influence what feels good during any sexual encounter. So the techniques outlined below are merely suggestions and certainly not a recipe for the perfect blow job. Play with them, have fun and ask your partner for feedback to find out what he loves and what he can do without.
Here are just a few tips to get you started:
As he approaches orgasm, you might want to pay attention to the lower few inches of his shaft using constant pressure and rhythmic stroking and sucking. And don’t be afraid to get a bit loud and messy. Let him know that you like it and encourage him to give you feedback and show appreciation for all your hard, sexy work.
These are just a few techniques among an infinite number of pleasurable possibilities. What are your go-to moves?
Dr. Jessica O’Reilly is a board-certified sexologist committed to helping clients enjoy healthy, pleasurable sex lives. She has completed her PhD in human sexuality with a focus on training teachers to deliver effective sex education. She loves her work (obviously!) and splits her time between public speaking engagements, freelance writing, program development and consulting in the field of sexual health.Learn more at www.jessicaoreilly.com
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